How to make friends?

What's the world without the friends?Are you simply dying to get friends or any attention among people(you have some crush).Do you want to make new friends & have tried so many tactics to get them, yet failed?

So, here is the solution to your problems. I am going to give you some tactics with whom you life will start flourishing & the people will start paying attention to you. You simply have to follow these few tips honestly & the whole world seems happier to you. You will get anything you want, from friends, attention in your office, college, school. From seniors to juniors, all persons will start paying attention to you, doing the same things for you what you really want(which might was not possible for you earlier).

Simply go through the stuff with patience & try to follow them in your life as early as possible.

1. Start meeting people

You should start going out, meeting people.
For this you can either go to some public place or can meet people simply in your class room. You can also join any game or team or any social club. In this way, you will come into the notice of the people. You don't have to be a brilliant student or good player or so for making friends. But you can get them by simply being interactive with them in first place.

Doing this, if you find any person as an interesting and you want to have friendship with that fellow, then don't forget to exchange your contact information with that person.

2. Smile :-)

"A Smile is a powerful weapon. You can even break ice with it."

When some one looks at you, just give that fellow a big but genuine smile. Believe me, a smile can do wonders for you. Suppose you have gone to an office,full of crowd & you want that the person-in-charge should listen to you(not hear you because hearing is an act of perceiving sound by the ear and listening needs concentration & time for brain to process meaning from words & sentences). If that fellow is very busy in the work, so, don't scratch your head. Just give a big smile to that fellow & see the result. You will definitely get a smile in response from that person & believe me -you have made agood impression on the mind of that fellow without saying even a single word. It is also said that
"A smile is like looking in a mirror.If you give a smile you're likely to get one back!"

To a person who has seen only people with frowning faces, your smile is like the sun breaking through the clouds.There is a Japanese proverb

"He who smiles rather than rages is always the stronger."

Infact, people who smile tend to manage the situations more effectively than those with wrinkles on their fore-heads.The smile shows the good will of a person. The world becomes a better place once you start smiling. So, keep smiling.

3.Body Language

Body language is a very powerful tool. We had body language before we had speech, and apparently, 80% of what you understand in a conversation is read through the body, not the words.
Body language is a form of communication using your gestures or movements.Your body language shows most of your personality and also how you think about others? Even your eye movements can tell so much to other person. So, use your body language in a nicer way. Always, try to make an eye contact with the speaker. An eye contact can indicate that a person is thinking positively of what the speaker is saying or tying to say.
Several other gestures like shaking of legs and tensing of muscles represents stress, aggression respectively. Remember that Actions speak louder than words. So, keep your body language in control, rather, use it in your benefit.

4. Remember a person's name

Think that when you meet a person for the first time & the fellow calls your name in a wrong way or simply, calls you by some other peron's name by mistake, then how will you feel? Definitely, you will not like it & may remind that person your name. Isn't it?

Yes, most of us, do not pay much attention to the name of the person, whom we meet or talk. But it is an important step to make friends & to deal with people. Though sometimes, it is difficult to remember a name( especially when it is hard to pronounce), yet not a tough task. But you should try to learn the name & pronounce it in a proper way. Many people ignore it or call the person by an easy nick name (which is against manners).

So, try to remember the name and call it in proper and easy manner,so, that, you have paid a subtle and effective compliment. But forget it or misspell it and you have placed yourself at a sharp disadvantage. Remember that good manners are made up of petty sacrifices.

This ability of remembring and calling the names will help you alot because to any person, his/her name is very important and is like the sweetest sound of the world.


5.Show your interests in people

If you don't pay attention to a person,then that fellow will also not be interested in you any longer, no matter since how you know that fellow. So, try to show a genuine interest in all the people around you. This will help you make new friends. When you attend a phone call then show that how pleased do you feel to have a talk with that fellow.

Have you ever noticed that now a days, many companies train their telehone operators to talk to the callers in a pleasing and enthusiastic voice. If you are attached to telecommunications or BPOs then you might know that how important is to greet a person in a voice that radiates your interests in them. Then, you are also supposed to be soft spoken and your voice should sound sweet on the telephone.

If you want others to like you and to develop real friendships then

• You should be genuinely interested in other people.
• You should be a good listener.
• You should encourage the people around you to talk.
• You should participate in the conversations.
  

For all this, you should let others talk about themselves and must have the patience to hear them with sincerity. Sometimes, people only want a good listener, so that they can boast about themselves or simply explain their experiences of past. At that point, if you fulfill their purpose, then believe me you seem them as a good person. But during that, you must appreciate a person keeping in mind that the appreciation should be sincere one, not flattery.
So, an attention to the speaker is very important.

6. Be trustworthy

Always, be honest and trustworthy to all, because trust is the keyw ord in a friendship. If a person can not rely on you or you are into the bad habit of spreading rumors or gossiping then the chances of getting friends almost vanish. So, try to keep the secrets of your good friends to yourself only.
Try to show that you are always there in case of any need or difficulty.Prove that you can do anything for your friend in case of difficulty(if any). So, try to be as honest and trustworthy as you can.
Remember A friend in need is a friend in deed.
A relationship always about giving first without thinking of taking. So, be ready to give first, either smiles, trust, help to persons.
Believe me, if you start doing this, people will come after you.